Done with the shame game, coming out of the shadows

Don’t judge a kink by its handcuffs

Don’t judge the kink by its handcuffs.

Are you kinky? Are you a freak in the sheets? Can you say vanilla is not a word used to explain your sex life? If so, know you are not alone. Now let me say this before I continue this with blog. I’ll never judge anyone by their kink or fetish. What gets you off might be much different than someone else’s kink. If you dress up like a baby and have your partner powder your ass and put you in a diaper, more power to you. If you are in to BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Sadomasochism) and you have an arsenal of ass less chaps and neon-colored floggers then I applaud you. If you like your gal to dress in nylons and you eat her pussy through them, but in the heat of passion ripe them open and fuck her like a beast, then go for it. If it’s a consensual act and it something that gives you the most sexual gratification then I say yes, own your kink!!! There are many types of kinks or fetishes out there, let me name a few; Animal role play (doggy, kitten, pony), biting, bondage, chastity devices, chocking, cuckold, DOM/SUB, electro play, family role (Daddy/Mommy), foot fetish, Gender play, latex and leather clothing, multiple penetration, spanking, rope bondage and many more.

There are some out there I’ve never heard of, and some I couldn’t even imagine would be a kink or fetish. I know what I am willing to try and what I do enjoy. As I have gotten older, I’ve not been afraid to ask my partner to participle in some of these kinks or fetishes I enjoy. This doesn’t make me a freak or weird. I just know what will give me the most sexual pleasure. And as stated from many of my pervious blogs, I’m owning the bedroom beast I am; and if me enjoying a kink or fetish is part of that then I have no shame in my game and I say; “Bring it on”! Not every encounter with my partner involves our kink. For us there’s a time and place for it. Coming to this discovery that there is a kink or a fetish that I enjoy was so very liberating for me. I was always very curious to have new sexual experiences, but because of the shaming and being made to feel like I was some sort of sexual deviant, my ability to experience the sexual freak/kink side of me was caged (wait that might be a fetish), until my bedroom beast broke free and started her sexual, naughty, submissive, cum oozing, being hog tied, receiving a nice pink handprint on my ass sex life. My partner is a very willing and eager participant however not every kink or fetish dose he enjoys and vice versa. So, if you’re going to try a fetish or kink, there is something important to remember. If you are not enjoying it or are not comfortable with a kink or fetish that your partner is into or wanting to try, don’t consent to it. Do not fake it. This will only lead to a disappointing encounter.

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