Who’s that knocking on my back door

Who’s that knocking at my back door

Some of you might be able to tell from the title of this blog what it might be about. So, to not beat around the bush let just get to the point. Yes, we’re taking being cornholed, exit polling, visiting the O ring, punching the starfish, steaming the rose or bad aim, and if you can’t say it just send your partner this –
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Hopefully, they get the gist of what you’re asking for. So, if you need further explanation, we’re talking about doing the dirty-dirty in the bum. Now I know this is not for everyone and it can be a delicate subject to discuss with your partner. After all this is usually an exit only, but it is a discussion that should take place and it is not a painful surprise one night while in the middle of a cum flying, sweat dripping down your back, booty getting spanked fuckfest.

For some of you this might not be in your wheelhouse. It’s defiantly something you’d mark NO on the kink check list. But for some of us it’s a curiosity or it’s something we enjoy. Now if your curious to try, I suggest you start small. I don’t necessary mean as in cock size, because if done right and carefully just about most size cocks can be enjoyable. Of course, if you’ve got a partner that has a 10-pound piece of man meat hanging; I’d, first count my lucky stars for having this magnificent dong in your life. Then I’d have to give that activity with this partner a firm pass.

There are many ways you can go about trying this activity. There are plenty of sex toys that can help ease your way into this experience. There are butt plugs and anal beads of all sizes. Some sex toy stores have butt plug training sets that come in various sizes. They come in different materials, metal, glass, silicone. There are ones that are sharpened for different pleasure. I recommend though if you plan to explore the world of back door action, I suggest that you also get a good lube. A water-based lube is good but there are also silicone lubes that provide longer lasting lubrication. Any of your Adult Sex Toy store should have a choice of different lubes available. Just speak with a staff member. Hopefully they can give you a bit of education on the best lube for anal sex. My favorite lubes are Uber Lube, Sliquid, Pjur-analyse me! And Anal -ESE.

Also make sure when you do engage in any back door activity you are not giving in just because your partner wants to try it. Your experience will not be enjoyable. Tell them if you need them to go slow, add more lube, or to just plan stop. Now if I was to give anyone a bit of advice before engaging in any anal activity. I’d give myself an enema. I know this might be TMI, but it does help. You can get a store-bought enema or if you get a reusable enema ball, just use warm water in it. Do not put anything in with the water, no soap, perfume, vinegar, just the warm water. In the event that there is a bit of, for lack of a better word “messiness”, If you are the one entering the back door, don’t make your partner feel embarrassed or uncomfortable. Keep a towel or wet wipes nearby just in case something like that happens.

So, for those of you who are about to go knocking on that back door, enjoy. Just remember an enema, good lube and partner who’s eager, willing, but also patient with this new activity.