The Collar

The Collar

What is a collar, there are many types. A collar is part of a garment that fastens around the neck. There are cervical collar that are meant to be worn to help support the neck perhaps in the event of a neck injury. There are collars that we put on our pets, for identification, fashion, and restraint. Then there are the other collars, the ones that show ownership, devotion, and subservience’s.

These types of collars are usually worn by an elite group of individuals. Theses individuals have Masters, Sir, Daddy or Doms. These Individual’s are known as Submissive, Subs, Subbies, slaves, baby girl or boy, property, littles, sluts, whores, and the list can go on.

For those who are the keeper of these collars you have a very special roll. You get the pleasure of gifting your Sub with a collar. Wrapping that leather band around their neck, slipping one end through the buckle. Pulling it just tight enough to let your Sub know who’s in control. Watching each notch slip by, reminding you of just how much trust your Sub has in you.

For the Submissive receiving a collar is an extraordinary event. Your Dom is showing you that you are owned. You are now his or her property. You no longer belong to yourself; you belong to them. For the Sub feeling that leather band get fasten around your neck can Ignite thrills, fears, and wonders of what events, punishment or disciplines might take place. Feeling that tug of the collar as your lead in to the “dark side,” preparing yourself for the most ultimate connection with your Dom is a beautiful thing.

Being collard is a special moment between a Sub and a Dom. It embodies tenderness and intimacy. It states that you will be taken care of, that your showing trust and gratitude towards your Dom and that you have given yourself over completely and you are excepting being owned.

Now I know saying your “owned” might be a difficult and odd concept for some to understand. Since being owned can have a negative meaning that goes far back in history. Agreeing to being owned is a whole different animal. If you are of the Sub/Dom lifestyle you will completely understand this special connect. It is an unbreakable bond you have with each other.

There are those who do not appreciate their collars. Not respecting the meaning of being collard and all the responsibilities that comes with it. When your collard it usual comes with a set of rules or guidelines you are expected to follow. If you feel that you cannot surrender yourself to this concept, then I would think twice before allowing yourself to be collard.

For me being collard was a bit of an out of the box idea at first. Not sure how someone like me, a completely control freak would do being “collard.” But once I felt my Dom’s hands around my neck, being asked to lift my hair so he could fasten that thick leather back around my neck. Feeling it get tightened just enough. Hearing the jingle of the buckle as it rested firmly around my neck, almost empowered me.

It honestly made me feel safe and brought me so much joy because in that moment I knew I was now owned. Again, I am sure some are saying “You’re a freak,” and you would be correct. I am a complete freak, on a leash and now with a collar. I wear a collar as a symbol of pride that I’m owned by my Dom. I want him to be proud of his obedient little Sub. I can be a bit of a bratty Sub though, which gets me in position for a much needed disciplinary session with my Dom. It usually leaves me with a few marks and a stinging cherry red ass.

I wear a day collar as a sign of devotion toward my Dom. It is not like a collar that’s used while playing on the “dark side.” It looks like a pretty little necklace. Only if you were of the Sub/Dom lifestyle then you would know what it really was. I wear it to keep reminding myself that I am always in the control and grasp of my Dom.