Happy National BDSM Day

Happy belated National BDSM Day to all those Dom’s and Submissives. I’ve shared that I tend to lean towards being a submissive. It’s not just a decision based off the pain and pleasure concept. It’s a relationship based off ultimate trust and respect. Giving a Dom the permission to discipline you in the way they see fit. Being able to take the punishments. Pushing yourself to open up and explore those dark corners of your soul. Craving to see the beast that can be unleashed in your Dom. Connecting with a Dom is on such a different level then you might connect with a normal boyfriend or girlfriend.

The Dom I had was an amazing individual. He pushed me to see just how powerful I was. It truly was me who had the control in our relationship though. It was me who could stop the experience with my safe word. Being bratty when I felt was justified to do so. Letting myself go and except that I enjoy and craved being submissive. I feel very lucky that I had the Dom I did. He was masterful and commanding. I was his and his only. He owned me and I absolutely loved it. He had a strong hand, but then a gentle touch once our intense encounters ended. He made me feel special in a way that words cannot explain. It’s a unique set of emotions that is so different than you might feel in a normal relationship.

We had a closeness that I can not explain. I believe those who live in the BDSM world and are true Dom’s and Submissives know what I’m talking about. Yes, this is a kink that is not for the faint hearted. You are engaging in a relationship that you know requires complete consent to getting it ruff. Getting orgasms not necessarily from penetration, but from the sheer intensity you are pushing yourself to handle.

The obedience I was taught by my Dom, I have used in my so called “vanilla” life. So, to the Dom I once had…. Thank you. You made be comfortable to admit I love being submissive, and even though I enjoy the submissive roll, this does not at all mean that I’m a weak woman. I might be a kitten when kneeling in front of my Dom, but I’m a lioness in my non BDSM lifestyle. My Dom has retired from the BDSM lifestyle, and we don’t engage with each other anymore. We are still very close friends and I’m still his “Kitten” that he can collar and make purr.